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From Reactive to Responsive in your Magical Life

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The Tower card is associated with crisis and emergency. When it shows up in a Tarot reading, the signal is that the tower is falling. When the tower falls, your life or the specific situation is falling apart. That’s one way to read the Tower card. But in Tower Time, Sheena and I share that there are other ways to work with the Tower. One way you can work with it is to shift from reaction to responsiveness in your magical life.

The Tower card is a warning as well as a signal.

It tells you that your life as you know is going to blow up and some changes are incoming. You can react to the Tower. Many people will react in an attempt to try and control the outcome or avoid the crisis that the Tower is signaling. Many people will react from a place of fear, which actually fuels the crisis even further.

On the other hand, you can choose to be responsive and prepare for the Tower moment. You may already be in the moment and trying to resist it will just make the fall harder than it has to be. One of the best adjustments you can make is to accept that the collapse of the Tower is really just removing what you don’t need in your life.

Our Towers are built of the complications and compromises we have allowed into our lives for the sake of surviving. When the Tower breaks, the illusions of the comfortable discomfort come tumbling down, leaving you with the opportunity for stark clarity and a choice: You can rebuild the Tower and replay the same patterns or you can choose a different path. The fall of the Tower offers you the choice to react or respond.

Your Tower walls are made to lock you into a comfortably numb life

The compromises are small at first, almost invisible and you tell yourself they are worth it. You take a job you don’t really want, but the pay is good so you justify it. You stay in a relationship after the expiration date because its what you know. You can probably think of some other compromises you’ve made in the course of your life. You know the cost, perhaps in hindsight, but you know it. The Tower you build creates a life for you to settle into.

Then one day the Tower comes down. The reactive approach is usually about rebuilding the Tower. It’s familiar, comfortable and gives you the illusion of control. You know the Tower. It may make you feel boxed in, but you know it. When it falls, the reaction is to try and put it back together.

The problem is that rebuilding your Tower just puts you back in the same patterns that caused it to fall in the first place. You start to break up with someone and then you panic and go back to the relationship. You leave your job and then you find a similar one even though you hate the work. People go back to what they know because it seems to be safe, when in fact is the real danger you aren’t facing.

You’ve reacted to the fall of the Tower by rebuilding and putting yourself back into the cage that you didn’t really want to be in.

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The Tower’s Fall is the Freedom you’ve longed for

The Tower falls and your life is shaken, stirred and upside down. Everything you know falls away and you are presented a blank slate. You can react and rebuild the Tower, but you already see where that’s going to take you. The fall of the Tower is an opportunity to claim your magical life on your terms. Yes, a lot will fall away. I’m not making light of that. You have been given a clarity call and you can respond to that call with curiosity.

The magician who steps into Tower Time takes the catalytic energy of the Tower fall and uses it to get curious about what their life could become. They break free of the numbing comfortable discomfort that the Tower put them into and walk a path away from the rubble, because they already know that rebuilding the Tower will just delay the inevitable.

The responsive magician chooses to let go of control and surrender to the current that is called in by the Tower’s fall. They surrender to the current and leave the tower behind to seek their north star and come back to the truth of their lives…the truth that brings them into integrity with their calling and with themselves.

Pull the Tower card out of a tarot deck. Look at what’s really happening. The Tower is broken. People are falling. The collapse of structure is the release of all the patterns that have gotten in your way. It’s also the opening of your next adventure. You can react or you can respond. If you respond you will definitely be taken out of your comfort zone. You’ll be challenged but you will also step into your most magical life and find what you’ve been looking for. The tower walls blocked it out, but they’ve fallen.

The lesson the Tower teaches about emergencies is that they are moments of existential awareness that bring your life into clarity. Embrace the moments, explore the opportunities and let your life be magical because you took the risk to do something instead of sticking with what comfortable.

Getting Real about how Magic(k) Works - How to enchant for incremental results

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The other day I read a couple of articles on Substack about how magic works. One article made the argument that magick doesn’t actually work like magic (i.e. Hollywood magic) and the other article explored why results de-manifest when you’re not fully able to let the results land in your identity. They were both good articles that laid out some of the problems that people around their magical practice:

  • Having unrealistic expectations how results

  • Internal disbelief that magic really works

  • A subconscious belief that you don’t deserve the result you want.

These are all valid reasons for why a result doesn’t land when you do a magical working. What the reasons really are, though, are symptoms of a deeper narrative around magic and the practitioner that hasn’t been fully explored or understood. Dealing with the symptom can help you in the short term, but it won’t address the long term reality that needs to be changed your relationship with magic.

What is the deeper narrative?

The deeper narrative is the set of beliefs that you have about yourself and magic that tells you what is or isn’t possible. It’s the set point you have within yourself, as well, that creates the relationship pattern you have with:

  • Money

  • Success

  • Love

  • Opportunity

  • and other various variables in your life.

The set points that you carry within you create the limits and parameters that you and your magic operate in. If you aren’t aware of those set points and their influence on you, then when you do magical working that takes you outside of those parameters, identity-wise, that part of you will react and bring you back home, because the set point is familiar and feels safe. It may not be serving what you want, but it serves the part of you that doesn’t want to get hurt, rejected or lose everything.

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The 10X problem

Have you ever been given the advice to 10X your goals?

On the surface it seems like good advice. Go big or go home. The reality is that 10x-ing your goals, as appealing as it may sound, actually creates a rebound effect on your results. You go big AND you go home to your set points. The reason is because you’re reaching too far, too quickly, and that causes the result to rebound, if you are not ready to receive the results. It basically is a system shock and when your system is shocked, it fights back and reverts to homeostasis, because that’s what it knows.

Instead of 10xing your goals, trying 2xing your goals. I know it doesn’t as glamorous, but it’s achievable and it has a hidden benefit. It allows you to adjust your set point incrementally without creating resistance to the desired outcome. A 2x goals is something you can achieve with your magic and your life and you’ll adjust to it. And once you achieve the 2x goal, you can move the goal again, 2xing again and again, gradually moving your set point and increasing your overall bandwidth and capacity to receive and integrate the result.

Incremental change isn’t very dramatic, but it is a sure sign that your magic is working and transforming your life. It enables you to trust yourself as well, because every part of you readily accepts and embraces the change as something natural.  You become acclimated to the change and it becomes your new set point, transforming the way you experience yourself and the world.

Are there ever exceptions to this rule?

There is an exception to the set point, of a sort. When you are already going through a period of upheaval, such as a tower moment, the usual rules go out the window. Your set points are already disrupted, which makes it easier to manifest and keep results that fall outside the normal capacity and tolerance you have of change. For instance, if you get divorced, the tower of your life is falling apart and so your tolerance of change is greatly increased. You have nothing stable to cling and change is the only way you will get back to any stability.

A tower moment can be a  useful experience for doing magic for improbable results, because you have more freedom to turn those results into reality. Your limits are stretched and your set points are open to being recalibrated. You can do magic for improbable results and have it land without the usual resistance and pushback you would otherwise get.

A tower moment is an ideal time to create radical change. If you’ve been wanting to move to a new part of the country or take a risk on a career change and your life is already in a place of upheaval, its the perfect opportunity to take the risk. It’s a calculated risk, because you are using the existing transformation and upheaval to fuel your magic and change your capacity to receive the results.

I don’t recommend this though as a strategy for long term change. In the moment it works. In the long run, it can burn you out. If you want long term success, the incremental approach is best, when paired up with long term/legacy magic. In future posts, I’ll be sharing more about long term/legacy magic and how you can apply it to design your magical life.

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When the Tower falls, a magician is forged.

You didn’t come to this path to stay safe. You came to wake up.

Tower moments are initiations that tear through your life without warning, but they are not mistakes or punishments. They are thresholds. And every serious practitioner of magic must pass through them.

In Tower Time: Turn Crisis into Catalyst with Practical Magic for Radical Change magicians Taylor Ellwood and Sheena Witter hand you the keys to navigating collapse as a crucible of magical development. This book is a tactical guide for transforming crisis into power, rooted in decades of lived experience, shadow and somatic work, and practical sorcery.

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